I recieved advice recently...and i figured why not share the advice one recieves with others?
So here it is:

Love, it can be mistaken and it can be known...what gets to most people who finally to find love is this: at first its a whirlwind where every second all you cant hink is "wow i'm in love" but as time progresses you slowly become used to the person and to the love...so its not any less wonderful of a thing...it just seems like your not at the right point.
Even when you are to the comfort point in love its no less great and it means no less whatsoever...its just a matter of knowing it and getting hit withtthat whirlwind of emotion that says "i'm in love" from time to time...familiarity doesn't mean its over